The day you are going to get into wedlock is
near. You are completely occupied with the preparation. You are making the list
of people you want to invite. The list includes relatives, friends and
colleagues but most of you would be in fix when it comes to inviting people
working together. The question comes up whether you should invite all of
them? Will common invite for all will
work or you need to invite them personally?
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Well you don’t need to invite everyone from
your work place. There would be people whom you are very close, include them
only in the list as it will save you from any awkward moment later on. Here are
5 tips for inviting the colleagues to your wedding.
1 Talk Less:
No doubt, getting into wedlock is the most
important event of your but that doesn’t means you should tell everyone in your
office about it. It will save you from unwanted questions from colleagues/staff
you are not intending to invite. Of course, you can share the excitement with your
close group during lunch or tea break.
2 Who is on the list?
The person
you cannot exclude from the list irrespective of your relationship is your
boss. The others on list depend on the relationship you share with them. If
it’s a new job then inviting the colleagues will give you an opportunity to
know them better. It will definitely strengthen your bond. When it comes to giving
invitation to colleague from your previous job, invite those with whom you want
to be in touch always.
3 Avoid talk about save the date:
Avoid too much talk about save the date. You
want the colleagues to grace the occasion and you remind them again and again
of your wedding date, so that they feel more invited but it will create an
awkward situation for them, if they are not able to come because of some
reason. Some of them will come forward and lend you an uncomfortable apology,
something you never want, so don’t be forceful or demanding, keep a causal and
friendly tone. If they come, its fine otherwise you have done your job.
4 Don’t keep it as secret:
One more think that you need to take care is
that you don’t make it secret affair, if somebody comes and talks about it then
don’t avoid the topic, irrespective of the fact you want to invite them or not.
5When actually inviting:
Inviting in office is a bit tacky. The
colleagues will think that you are inviting them simply as a formality, so most
of them even will not turnaround for the event. The best way is going to their
home and inviting cordially. This will make them feel important and they will
surely turn up for your ceremony. If you can go to their homes, then go to
their cabins or desk, talk to them for few minutes and hand them the invite.
Never distribute the invitation as flyers to everyone you are coming across.
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